In this day and age there are many options open to moms but not all of them will fit into their lives. Some mom’s may have partners where others do not. Some may be financially stable and others may be poor. Either way they seem to get a lot of criticism no matter what they choose to do.
There might be a mom who has no or very little income, she finds out she is having a baby, the father leaves her with no support or money and she will have to go out to work as soon as she’s recovered from the birth. Some people may think her cruel or harsh but in reality she has had no choice otherwise she and her baby will have nothing to eat and no roof over their heads.
On the other side of the fence you have the mom who is doing okay financially but she wants to spend her time in her home with the kids. Maybe she has a partner who goes out to work creating stock trading strategies. However they could earn more and have a better lifestyle if she took up a part time job whilst the kids were at school, so she may be criticised for being lazy.
Then you have the moms who create a home income opportunity, they sort of have the best of both worlds. They don’t have to go out to work and often won’t have set hours or shifts. Yet they still work but they work from the family home. However this mom can be criticised for overworking and ignoring the kids even when they’re at home.
So for moms it is hard to know exactly what to do, studies and research show pros and cons for all these situations but at the end of the day a mom knows what is going to be best for her children. As we saw before in the examples at the beginning some people have no choice in what they have to do when they have kids, some even make money online.
When you have a child or more there should be only 1 priority and that is that your child is happy, secure, cared for and is loved. None of those things can be bought with money alone but you also have to understand that a lot of articles and studies come from people who have never been poor and some from people who have never had kids!
Moms need to unite and know that they make choices for their families, not for other people and not to fit into society. As human beings we have primitive instincts on how to look after our young and bring them into the world as best we can.