This is a continuation of the series on controlling fear, especially as it is linked to developing a good, successful home business. Now one big reason that people are controlled by fear is literally that they do not know what to do in a given circumstance. And they do not do anything because they are afraid, generally of either a bad end result or they’re afraid of looking foolish. These are normal fears; everybody has them. This is applicable to every part of our lives, and it also applies specifically to creating a successful home business.
We don’t really want to have bad outcomes as we create our home-based businesses, and we don’t want to look foolish as we’re doing the different tasks linked with a home-run business. The idea of “I have no idea what to do” or “I do not know how to __” is the primary obstacle for most people moving forward. For you to be able to move forward, you have to know what the main elements are to a successful business. To grasp what the main elements are, you must be able to plug into an effective training, which is provided by our organization. Not only that, you then have to practice the training. And this is where the development of what we call skill occurs. If you only just hear the coaching and never practice it, you can never develop the skills that will overcome your fears.
I am comparing this to your usual job. Probably, whatever you do now days, you don’t think about it a lot, it does not cause lots of anxiety, fear does not hold you back because you are used to doing it. You’re competent at what you do. The same can be created in developing a home based business.
As you’ve likely heard before, there are four stages of competence. First of all, we have unconscious incompetence, which means that we don’t know what we are doing, and we really do not know that we don’t know what we are doing. We do not think about it. The second stage is when we actually start to progress in an area, and we call this conscious incompetence. We know what we would like to do, and we know that we do not know the way to do it. That is where most of us get stuck; we don’t move past that point. Because we know we are incompetent, we’re afraid to progress.
With the right training and the right setting to practice those skills, we will move into the following stage, which is conscious competence. That’s where you are seeing results because you are actually doing the right things that produce results and are effective. If you do this long enough, and your focus is on growing into a leader, you will then develop and move into the stage of unconscious competence. This is when you’re doing things naturally; you do it well, you do it excellently. This is similar to when you’re driving a car; most of us hopefully have unconscious competence when we drive. We do not think about all of the little details. We just do them very well; we’re alert to the numerous things that might be going on.
This is where you want to get to with your business. You need to know what the specific skills are that you will need to develop, of which there are not many. But there are a few that are very key. You need to have the right training, and then you want to practice to develop the skills.
Obviously, you have to be sure that you’re getting the right training. You must be plugged into the right group of people who are giving you the right training. You do not want to “climb the ladder” and end up at the very top only find out that you are on the wrong ladder. You want to be confident that what you’re learning from the beginning is something that is going to serve you and your business, and your long-term financial goals. I believe that if you’re part of our organization, you’ll have this kind of experience, that you will be sure that you are learning the right skills, and that you are developing progressively better competency to the point of unconscious competence in all of the major skill sets that you will need. You are sure to be exposed to this training with our group. I wish you well, have a fantastic day, and God bless.
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